Working this out can take some time. Polyamorous relationships can not just work but truly be happy and fulfilling for everyone involved. That said they are not for everyone. Monogamy is good too. For this to work both you and your wife need to be very mature and considerate of one another.
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1. The husband becomes furious and forces "the other woman" out of the picture.
For 12 years, my relationship with my wife has been a very good one in all aspects. We love each other dearly and our sex life is great. But about eight months ago my wife started to ask in a playful, non-serious way how I would feel about the idea of having another woman join us for sex sessions. I thought she was joking and responded accordingly. Three months ago my wife told me she had come to realise that she was bisexual. She asked again how I felt about another woman joining us from time to time, or if I was not comfortable with this, how would I felt about her having a relationship with a woman occasionally?
News Corp is a network of leading companies in the worlds of diversified media, news, education, and information services. I CAME home early one night and heard moaning from the bedroom. To my astonishment I saw my wife in our bed with another woman. I never suspected my wife had lesbian tendencies. The other woman left and I sat downstairs. My wife joined me and did seem quite embarrassed.
I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here.